tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25040557617486403652024-02-08T06:54:04.200+08:00靖晴咧瞎啥靖晴http://www.blogger.com/profile/04398124876031796419noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2504055761748640365.post-76866106303537726512011-06-01T20:38:00.000+08:002011-06-01T20:38:02.482+08:00嘉明湖影片<iframe width="425" height="349" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/BEVneWNPe6U" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>靖晴http://www.blogger.com/profile/04398124876031796419noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2504055761748640365.post-26256919603350370242011-05-28T20:57:00.000+08:002011-05-28T20:57:59.338+08:00來去神山拔草這次的神山行行前因為天候關係一直無法令人一手掌握,直到週五下午才確定且為二天行程,甚至如果週六早上天候不佳也可能取消.還好老天對我們很好,沒有變天阻擋我們的行程,還賞給我們沒有大太陽涼涼的天氣.<br />
因為天候的關係禁止登山,所以入山檢查哨經過一番的盤問才對我們放行.<br />
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此次目的地是屏東霧台鄉的神山部落,接待我們的是霧台愛鄉社區發展協會總幹事(夫)及執行長(妻),愛鄉協會立於2004年,該協會是由神山,阿禮,佳暮,大武幾個部落35人成立的協會,他們1999年開始依著耆老源自相傳幾百年來魯凱族與山林共存的經驗打造一個達巴里蘭(彩虹之意)生態園區,88風災前他們即從事於生態旅遊,88風災後因為大禮及佳暮面臨撒村,所以這近二年以協助下山的族人在山上生活為主,生態旅遊暫停,山下族人安置後開始思考執行山上的重建工作.<br />
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原住民在山上與山林生存了上千年相安無事,卻在近幾年的颱風,山林發出痛苦的吶喊聲,甚至於要他們交出生命財產,才讓原住民反省到近年他們對待山林的態度,重新去檢視他們祖先傳下來的與這片山林共存永續的制度,88風災雖然是危機,對原住民或許又是另一個轉機.<br />
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之前在茂林聽當地魯凱族講故事,獵人上山去打獵,他們只會獵取足夠自己家人或族人足夠食用的動物,分享獵物時,一起上山的狗也都有一份,在一些動物的生產期也禁止上山,打獵只是要讓家人有肉可以食用,不能因此而讓動物滅亡,如果獵人因需要吃掉其它獵人的獵寮食物,回來也會告知,而現今打獵變成商業行為變成家庭經濟的來源,屬於獵人的倫理已不存在,這樣的故事同樣在神山上演,相信這是全台灣原住民的相同故事.<br />
在巴達里蘭他們減少對動物的射殺,讓獵人帶領來這裏的人認識這裏的野生世界,瞭解學習以前原住民獵人和山林生活的方式,也讓獵人了解除了獵殺動物外,他們仍然可以賺錢,繼而支持減少對動物的獵殺 .<br />
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總幹事目前的主業是種樹,先作育苗之後再將樹苗移到巴達里蘭,去育苗田拔草成了我們此行的重要工作,為了怕我們這些鄉下俗,誤把樹苗當雜草拔掉,規定我們只能拔一種草,因為這種草和樹苗長的完全不一樣.<br />
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此行也領教到原住民渾然的幽默感,有人談到柴山猴子的肆虐,總幹事說只要讓原住民在柴山一個月,保證可以解決這個問題.<br />
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此行並未對神山部落提供實際的勞力協助,反倒是我們有機會悠閒的在山裏過了二天悠閒且充實的日子.靖晴http://www.blogger.com/profile/04398124876031796419noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2504055761748640365.post-43264421392629491512011-05-11T21:22:00.001+08:002011-05-11T21:41:02.089+08:00嘉明湖<embed type="application/x-shockwave-flash" src="https://picasaweb.google.com/s/c/bin/slideshow.swf" width="600" height="400" flashvars="host=picasaweb.google.com&hl=zh_TW&feat=flashalbum&RGB=0x000000&feed=https%3A%2F%2Fpicasaweb.google.com%2Fdata%2Ffeed%2Fapi%2Fuser%2Fcherry0653%2Falbumid%2F5605435371758369009%3Falt%3Drss%26kind%3Dphoto%26hl%3Dzh_TW" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer"></embed>靖晴http://www.blogger.com/profile/04398124876031796419noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2504055761748640365.post-5702914194752594522011-04-04T15:35:00.001+08:002011-04-04T15:35:59.533+08:00找理由,找藉口一早的辦公室對話<br />
A:唉!今天遲到1分鐘<br />
B:你怎麼遲到了<br />
A:因為今天下雨<br />
B:對啊,我知道下雨所以提前5分鐘出門<br />
A:對啊,我提前1分鐘,還是遲到<br />
A.屁咧!關下雨什麼事,飛機會因為下雨慢點飛,等人嗎?<br />
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是今天第一次下雨,所以不知道天雨路滑車騎的慢,要早點出門嗎?<br />
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當事情沒有作好,找理由,找藉口,似乎成了我們大人的第一反應<br />
當孩子作錯事講理由時,大人說,作不對事,還辯,這麼會辯,<br />
當找理由找藉口是大人的習慣性思惟時,我們怎能奢望孩子勇於認錯負責,不找理由<br />
或許當小朋友作錯事,不願意動腦子找理由,找借口時,可能要擔心了<br />
反正就作錯了啊,不然你是要怎樣?<br />
姪女作錯事,我喜歡問為什麼?為什麼?為什麼?<br />
除了盡力了解事情的原由外,<br />
藉由對話過程,讓他練習把腦子所想的化為語言表達出來靖晴http://www.blogger.com/profile/04398124876031796419noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2504055761748640365.post-61793566242781103792011-03-29T01:26:00.002+08:002011-03-30T19:27:00.477+08:00對孩子的實驗昨天回家快10點了,看到讀大班的小姪女還在玩電腦,以前會直接問她,現在幾點了,現在該作什麼,然後她就會很暗淡的回答:睡覺,然後關電腦上樓.前後不用一分鐘,<br />
今天口氣很開心的問她<br />
我:<span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">『在玩什麼電腦啊?</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">』</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">姪女:<span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">『玩xx遊戲』,很開心的回話.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">我:『我知道這一定是弟弟亂丟的,弟弟還小,你幫忙弟弟收好好嗎?』看著地散亂的紙張.</span><br />
她很開心的馬上彎下收拾,以前請她收弟弟亂丟的東西,她總是慢吞吞和抱怨是弟弟弄的.<br />
不小心看到積木竟然是收好的,姪女還沒有養成自動收拾玩具的習慣.<br />
<span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">我:『積木是你收的嗎,你好棒,今天把積木收這麼乾淨』</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"></span><span style="font-family: 新細明體;">姪女:<span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">『是,玩具收這樣,以後姐姐找我玩時,可以怎樣....』眼睛閃著光</span></span>開心的回答,<br />
我<span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">『現在時鐘是幾點?』</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">姪女:<span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">『掉到地上時鐘不準』</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">我<span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">『那電腦上的時間有準嗎?<span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">』</span></span></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">姪女:<span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">『9:45』</span></span></span></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">我:<span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">『這個時間應該作什麼咧』</span></span></span></span></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">姪女:<span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">『睡覺』</span></span></span></span></span></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">然後自己關電腦上樓,上樓前還跟我分享怎樣關電腦</span></span></span></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">同樣是提醒她該睡覺了,今天我花了較多的時間</span></span></span></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"></span></span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">她以前會不開心不情願的上樓</span></span></span></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">而今天是很開心的上床去</span></span></span></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">反正都是催她睡覺,如果她能開心的入睡,又何仿</span></span></span></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">今天在攀岩場教小朋友時不扮黑臉,不大聲吼人,對於他們的糾紛只適度的介入和觀察他們的互動,攀岩場就是個小型社會,在這裏他們學習人際關係的互動,解決同儕間的糾紛.</span></span></span></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-family: "新細明體", "serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">有個語言能力不太順的小朋今天推人,問他為什要推人,他開始解釋,在和他的對話中,他開始找借口,明知道他是在推拖,不過也借由這樣的對話,讓他學習組織語言的能力.</span></span></span></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: 新細明體;">今天沒有用聲音維持秩序,雖然有些小混亂,不過尚在可接受範圍.</span>靖晴http://www.blogger.com/profile/04398124876031796419noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2504055761748640365.post-67151907417329713562011-03-28T01:43:00.003+08:002011-03-30T19:31:48.321+08:00認真對待每個人<span style="font-size: large;">今天去高雄人本基金會上課,人本的教育講的是不打,不駡,不處罰,不恐嚇,不打現在很多都作的到,不駡,有點難,不處罰不恐嚇,那是在講天方夜譚嗎?</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">"尊重"從小大人教我們對長輩要有禮貌要尊重,出了社會我們知道對上位要尊重,不然工作可能不保,那對平輩?對小孩?,對弱勢的一族群?</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">"尊重",認真對待一個人,感受他的情緒感受他的思想,這樣的過程是需要時間,只是我們都選擇了自以為可以解決問題的方法,不外乎打駡,處罰,恐嚇,只是這真的有解決問題嗎?馬上聯想到小姪女,吃飯超慢,不收玩具,愛玩電腦,每次念她,或我自認為和她講道理的方式似乎也沒有讓她有較好的改善,只是很怕我,據大嫂轉述,曾經她把玩具弄一地上,只是大嫂一句,小姑姑明天出差就要回來了,她馬上跳起來開始整理玩具,我想她是懼於我的權威而屈服,而並未認為收玩具是一件她該作的事.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">回想我在自認有和她講道理的過程,我還是用一種上對下的方式,權威式的溝通.同樣的.在攀岩場精力旺盛的大小鬼頭,我常用凶和處罰的方法,不過還是常上演混亂的戲碼,腦子想的是用什麼方法對付他們.我忽略了他的想法,他作這些行為後面的想法是什麼?</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">我應該改變策略,用平等認真的對待他們,試著用對等的溝通和鼓勵去引出他們向上的能量.</span>靖晴http://www.blogger.com/profile/04398124876031796419noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2504055761748640365.post-38477074549193339332010-10-20T18:45:00.011+08:002011-03-30T20:18:12.565+08:00台灣之光的背後<span style="background-color: black; color: #b6d7a8; font-size: large;">美國第一夫人就任典禮禮服設計人-吳季剛,最近回台灣,他在電視訪談中提到,從小喜愛縫製洋娃娃衣服更甚於讀書,而她的母親不但沒有反對,還安排他去上縫紉課.</span><br />
<a name='more'></a><span style="background-color: black; color: #b6d7a8; font-size: large;">我不禁要問,如果吳季剛是你的小孩,你會怎麼作?當你四週的三姑六伯在責問怎麼讓小男孩去玩這種女孩子的玩藝,你是否還能一路支持?今天吳李剛成功了,如果他沒有成功,三姑六伯是不是會說,你看,早就警告你了,就是不聽......</span><br />
<span style="background-color: black; color: #b6d7a8; font-size: large;">訪問了幾位有小孩的朋友,沒有人可以回答:可以,他們可以支持.只想說,作父母的,在你們作自以為對孩子是對的決定時,可能已經殺了很多台灣之光.</span>靖晴http://www.blogger.com/profile/04398124876031796419noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2504055761748640365.post-80710252825098286512010-10-06T21:15:00.001+08:002010-10-06T21:37:13.546+08:0099.09.26海神宮溯溪<embed type="application/x-shockwave-flash" src="http://picasaweb.google.com.tw/s/c/bin/slideshow.swf" width="600" height="400" flashvars="host=picasaweb.google.com.tw&captions=1&noautoplay=1&hl=zh_TW&feat=flashalbum&RGB=0x000000&feed=http%3A%2F%2Fpicasaweb.google.com.tw%2Fdata%2Ffeed%2Fapi%2Fuser%2F104227430468831350021%2Falbumid%2F5524910371012246305%3Falt%3Drss%26kind%3Dphoto%26hl%3Dzh_TW" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer"></embed>靖晴http://www.blogger.com/profile/04398124876031796419noreply@blogger.com0